It's kind of hard to fathom that, the hardships, trials and tribulations are happening because the universe is trying to teach us something, or that we'll grow from whatever it is we are going through.
It's true. We cannot be the person who we are truly meant to be, live to our highest potential if we do not walk through and tough out our lowest moments. Not to sound cliche, but it makes us a better person.
Just when we think we are coming out of the valley, we fall right back into another one. And sometimes, another one after that.
But here's the truth: There is a lesson to be learned in all of it. The universe has a way of shaking the sh*t out of you and turning you upside down to wake you up from the existence you know as 'living the life'. When actually, we are living a lie. We tell ourselves lies that keep us from living without intention. Without purpose.
Here is another truth: God knows what He is doing and He would not allow us to suffer if it wasn't for a reason. Learn, grow, and do better, is what we have to do. Ask yourself, 'what can I do differently? Because what I am doing now is not working!' Believe me when you become tired and frustrated of repeated pitfalls, you will begin to ask yourself the tough questions. We have to consciously start making better life decisions that will serve ourselves, and most importantly our spirit.
Peace & Blessings,